But then, I’ve always been determined not to be hypocritical when a woman has the same lack of morals I do.
I The sex question is a popular one because it comes up in every dating situation. Turn sex into a reward for good behavior and time put-in and you’re missing the entire point.
Blond: i dont know who the father is for the other baby Doctor: LUCKY IM A BRUNETTE !!!!!!!
*BLOND GOES TO THE DOCTOR TO FIND OUT IF SHE IS PREGNANT* Doctor: your pregnant Blond: *smiles* 🙂 Doctor: your having twins Blond: *crys* Doctor: is’ant that good?
I call it the A-B-C model and it goes like this: Not all of my clients are highly sensitive, and not all of them have been lifelong sufferers of anxiety.
I know one woman who was told by an “expert” to wait 10 dates before sleeping with the man she was dating. Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if he’s interested in YOU or in SEX. And if you can’t handle the emotional consequences of making an occasional mistake, you probably shouldn’t sleep with anyone until you’re in a committed relationship. “Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if hes interested in YOU or in SEX.” Excellent point and one to never forget.
(Lol, I think we all experienced this at some point.) Finally you hear yourself saying something completely uninteresting, like: And then the conversation dries up once again, the awkward silence start to eat you both up from the inside until one of you can’t stand the social pressure and thus make up some excuse to leave.
It’s a horrible horrible situation to be in, I have thus decided to make this cheat sheet of interesting conversation topics to ensure, that you will never run out of things to say again.
The thought is so far from reality that it’s almost laughable, except that it’s not funny at all because my clients believe the lie which, of course, creates massive amount of anxiety. Perhaps it’s precisely because of this high level of sensitivity and empathy that their mind has gravitated toward an alarming thought as a way to try to avoid the intensity of feeling with which they respond to life.
Highly sensitive people were once highly sensitive children, which means their nervous systems were wired at birth to respond to the sights, sounds, and experiences of life at amplified levels.